“There are fewer ways to make love than they say, but more than they think.”

Colette

Sexual intercourse

In our society we have the mentality that sexual intercourse is sexual relations and although it is a privileged form of relationship within erotic relations, it is not the “authentic” or “true” form of sexual relations. It is precisely in coitus that the sexual differences between men and women are most evident and therefore requires more learning than other forms or techniques of erotic intercourse.

Coitus means “going together” and that is what it is about, a form of erotic relationship where it is fundamental to “be with the other”, to feel oneself and the other to “go together”, however, this does not mean that we must achieve orgasm at the same time, nor that the coitus has to be in one way or another prefixed. In this necessary learning and experimentation it is good to forget the movie models, and open up to what you feel and what your partner feels.

The fact that the coitus is conceptive makes the contraceptive method very important for this erotic resource to be satisfactory.

In general, it is advisable that the coitus be calm, sensitive, and that it be conducted by both or alternatively by one and the other member of the couple.

Sexual intercourse positions

Lying face to face with the woman on top.

The man lies on his back with the woman on top. It is like the missionary position, but in reverse. It is very comfortable and many men are turned on by the fact that the woman is in control of the situation.

Advantages
  • Like missionary, it is a very romantic position.
  • There is a lot of eye contact and it allows for a lot of caressing and kissing.
  • The man can caress the woman’s chest, back and buttocks.
  • With this position, the woman controls the depth of penetration and the rhythm of the thrusting; she can rub the clitoris with the man’s pubic hollow, having a greater stimulation.
  • Indicated for pregnant women or those who like to control the situation.
  • In cases where the man suffers from heart disease or fatigue, it would also be recommended.
Variants

The woman with her knees bent over the man’s thighs. It has many advantages:

  • It is very comfortable for coital movements.
  • It allows the man to caress the clitoris during intercourse.
  • It allows the woman to control the level of penetration and to withdraw when she wishes.
  • The man enjoys watching his partner take a more active role, allowing him to adopt a more passive attitude.
Different sexual positions: advantages, disadvantages and variants

Lying face-to-face with the man on top

This position is also called the missionary position. It is so called because it is the one that for them was the most natural and authorized by God, the others were too animalistic.

In this posture the woman is lying on her back, legs apart and knees raised. The man is on top of the woman’s legs, lying on the woman or leaning on his anuses or elbows. The missionary position is a comfortable position, used by the majority. For many, it is the only one they practice.

Advantages
  • With it, physical contact is complete.
  • The couple can kiss and look into each other’s eyes, increasing the feeling of intimacy.
  • This position allows the man to guide the penis, facilitating penetration. The man controls his thrusting and withdrawal movements; this will help to contain ejaculation until the moment he prefers.
Disadvantages
  • In this position it is difficult for the man to stimulate the woman’s clitoris; the limited freedom of the hands does not allow him to do so.
  • If the man is heavy, it may be uncomfortable for the woman. His movements will be very restricted.
  • This position is not recommended during pregnancy.
Variants
  • She with her legs together, and the man with his legs on the outside, she can squeeze her thighs as she wishes.
  • It is indicated for those occasions when the penis is flaccid, and the woman can continue enjoying herself for a while longer.
  • It is also indicated after childbirth. The vagina is still dilated and must regain elasticity.
Different sexual positions: advantages, disadvantages and variants

Side positions

The couple is supported on their sides. Neither supports the weight of the other.

Advantages
  • These are very comfortable positions where the couple can kiss and caress each other in a relaxed way.
  • These positions are very playful.
  • The legs can be placed in many different ways, so the sensations are very varied.
Different sexual positions: advantages, disadvantages and variants

Position of penetration from behind

It consists of introducing the penis into the vagina from behind, not penetrating the anus. This position is very exciting for men, who enjoy the sight and contact with their partner’s buttocks.

Advantages
  • It is a comfortable and very stimulating position.
  • The man can stimulate his partner’s clitoris with his fingers during intercourse.
  • Advisable for women in advanced pregnancy, with weight and/or spinal problems.
Disadvantages
  • There are couples who reject these positions because they find them too animalistic.
  • The positioning of the bodies prevents eye contact and kissing.
Variants
  • The man is seated on the bed, the woman lies on top of him with her back to him.
  • The woman is lying on the bed face down, raises her pelvis and lowers her head, he stays on his knees behind her.
  • Positioned like two overlapping spoons, he inserts his penis between her thighs.
Different sexual positions: advantages, disadvantages and variants

Standing positions

Penetration is performed while both are standing. This is easier when both are at the same height.

Advantages
  • In these positions it is the psychological factor that takes precedence.
  • There are couples who find the sensation of passion from standing up very stimulating.
Disadvantages
  • The difference in height can make this position uncomfortable.
  • A step can be used to equalize.
Different sexual positions: advantages, disadvantages and variants

Sitting face to face

He sits on the chair or bed, and she sits on his thighs.

Advantages
  • They are very comfortable positions.
  • They allow great intimacy with the partner and little effort.
  • A chair can be used, taking the couple out of the sexual routine, becoming more excited by the novelty of the situation.
  • The positions where the couple is seated are ideal when there is not much time or space.
Different sexual positions: advantages, disadvantages and variants

The man on his knees

The man is on his knees, the woman is lying down, placing her legs at the height of his waist, lifting her pelvis.

Advantages
  • For many women it is very exciting, as it allows a deeper penetration.
  • For the man it is also very exciting, since he has his partner in front of him with her legs open.
  • But the most important thing is the great genital contact that occurs in the face-to-face positions.
Disadvantages
  • Can only be performed by very flexible women.
Variant
  • The woman bends her legs, putting them over the man’s shoulders.
Different sexual positions: advantages, disadvantages and variants

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